Gender Differences (SumBlog7)
There are numerous factors that
encourage men to share responsibilities with housework. Studies have shown that
children drastically benefit, being more motivated, excelling academically, and
staying out of trouble when fathers are involved with housework. Studies also
show that women are happier, healthier, more productive, and more loving and
supportive to their husbands and children when their spouse is involved. Males
themselves are also happier, healthier and are more loving and supportive to their
wives. It has also been suggested that married couples have more sex when they
take on equal roles at home. These are just the start of reasons for the male
to be involved. I think they emotional factor might play a very large role. Children
see how women are treated, who carries the work load and the amount of
affection shown around the house. I think this is essential in the emotionally
stable development of young children and young adults. This could explain why
more and more relationships and families are struggling. Gender differences
very clearly play a large role in relationships. I also had the thought that maybe the children aren't doing enough of the house work. I came from a single mother family and my brother and I did the majority of the house work growing up. Because of that, I see it as extremely important for the man to take on an equal if not heavy work load in a relationship.I also wonder if in today's society families are creating more stress and house work by allowing massive amounts of technology. If the video games weren't sitting right there would family members naturally volunteer to take on work? I think so. I have seen couples make it a competition. Whichever spouse does less work at the end of the week than the other owes them a reward. Motivation to accomplish housework is created!
This might seem really dumb, but I like the concept. If you need help with housework then find a way to get your family to help you. 1 hour of chores before they turn on the television. No Ipod or video games until a certain chore is completed daily.